The Times Herald from Port Huron, Michigan • Page 17

Engagements Pamala A. Perry G. Pickard Holden II Pickard-Holden NORTH STREET Mr. and Mrs. William G.

Pickard, North Street, announce the engagment of their daughter, Pamala Ann, to Perry G. Holden II, son of E.B. Holden Los Angeles, and Mrs. Geraldine Kautz, St. Joseph, Mich.

She is a 1974 graduate of Port Huron Northern High School and a 1978 graduate of Taylor University, Upland, Ind. He is a 1975 graduate of Western Michigan University. They are planning a July 18, 1981, wedding in the North Hills Church of the Nazarene, Port Huron. C. Michael Karyn Alley Rowland Rowland-Alley ST.

CLAIR Mr. and Mrs. Robert Rowland, St. Clair, announce the engagement of their daughter, Karyn, to C. Michael Alley, St.

Clair. They attend Central Michigan University. An Aug. 2 wedding is planned. Miller-Pietroski SMITHS CREEK Mr.

and Mrs. Richard N. Pietroski, Smiths Creek, announce the engagement of their son, Richard to Joan Ellen Miller, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James L.

Miller, Martinsburg, W. Va. Sheri a graduate of Hagerstown Business College, Hagerstown, with an associate of arts degree in business. He is a graduate of Eastern Michigan University, Ypsilanti, with a bachelor of science degree in aquatic biology. They will be married Aug.

16 in St. Luke's I Episcopal Church, Ypsilanti. Essenmacher-Rader CARSONVILLE Mrs. Cyril Essenmacher, Carsonville, announces the engagement of her daughter, Lillian Marlane, Port Huron, Larry R. Rader, Carsonville, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Harold Cox and Louis Rader, all of Carsonville. She also is the daughter of the late Cyril Essenmacher. She is a graduate of Carsonville High School and Michigan State University. He is a graduate of Carsonville High School and a veteran of the U.S.

Navy. They will be married in Autumn 1980. Hyde-Wood The Rev. and Mrs. Aaron D.

Hyde, Port Huron, announce the engagement of their daughter, Terry Mylene, Scott R. Wood, son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Wood, Marlette. They will be married Aug.

16 in the Marlette Second Presbyterian Church. Reunion Mary E. Jeff M. Baker Baron Baker-Baron ROGERS CITY, Mich. Mr.

and Mrs. Ralph Baker, Rogers City, announce the engagement of their daughter, Mary to Jeff M. Baron, son of Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Baron, Port Huron.

She is a graduate of Lake Superior State College. He is a graduate of Port Huron Northern High School. They will be married Oct. 4 in Rogers City. Kathlene L.

Smith MARYSVILLE Mr. and Mrs. Vern W. Smith, Marysville, announce the engagement of their daughter, Kathlene Lyn, to Jon Arvid Watt, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Arvid Watt, St. Clair. She is a graduate of St. Clair Community College with an associate in liberal arts degree and will attend Central Michigan University in the fall. He attended St.

Clair County Community College for two years and attends Central Michigan University. They will be married May 15, 1981, in Holy Cross Catholic Church, Marine City. 3 Smith-Watt Mr. and Mrs. Shirley R.

Hart, Port Huron, announce the engagement of their daughter, Susan to Steven C. Lewis, son of Mr. and Mrs. E.M. Lewis, Livonia.

Susan J. Hart Hart-Lewis She is a graduate of Michigan Technological University with degrees in biological sciences and metailurgical engineering. He is a graduate of Michigan Technological University with a degree in electrical engineering. They will be married in September in Port Huron. 3C THE TIMES HERALD PORT HURON, MICH.

Sunday July 20, 1980 Linda Lynne A. Plodzien Taylor Plodzien-Varty Taylor-Janderwski MELVIN Mrs. Chester Plodzien, RUBY Donald and Dorothy TayMelvin, announces the engagement of lor, Ruby, announce the engagement of her daughter, Linda, to Jeffery J. their daughter, Lynne Ann, to Ricky Varty, son of Jack and Caroline Varty, Leo Janderwski, son of Henry and MarSt. Clair.

jorie Janderwski, Port Huron. They will be married Sept. 6 in St. They will be married Sept. 20 in St.

John's Church, Peck. Mary's Catholic Church, Port Huron. Scott-Griffith ANCHORVILLE Mr. and Mrs. Al- and Mrs.

Orman Griffith, Algonac. len James, Anchorville, announce the No date has been set for the wedengagement of their daughter, Connie ding. Scott, to Richard Griffith, son of Mr. Parents not at fault when child has sex Dear Ann Landers: The lovely, in- riage. think of it? telligent 19-year-old daughter of a dear friend was killed recently in a tragic accident.

The parents are inconsolable. To make matters worse, they found birth control pills in the dead girl's purse, prescribed by a local, well-respected doctor. The girl had been dating a fine young man for quite some time, but there was no reason to believe they were having sex. The parents are crushed to think their daughter would behave in such a duplicitous manner. They were loving, extremely fine role models and trusted her completely.

What can we say to alleviate the pain? How can we rear our own daughters so they will not go down the same road? Is this something the majority of young people doing now? Is there some way society can bring a halt to the glorification of sex? How can we point out, in a meaningful way, the dangers of intimacy before marriage? Please say something to help our friends who not only must face the loss of their daughter but also their failure to keep her pure for the wedding bed. Baltimore Heartache Dear Baltimore: How I wish I could Ask Ann By Ann Landers speak personally to each and every parent and say, "Iti is not your fault if your daughter didn't save her virginity for the wedding bed. That decision will be hers." At the outset of any discussion of teen-age behavior, we must accept the fact that this is not the same world we grew up in. Our children and grandchildren are living in a heavily sex-oriented society. The pressures to give in are overwhelming.

Parental guidance and exemplary role models are helpful, but the pill has changed everything. Also there are peer pressure, advertising, movies, television and highly seductive music. Today, in terms of physical maturation, a 13-year-old is where a 16-yearold was 40 years ago. Better nutrition and medical care have made the difference. The urge to engage in sex hits Drilling holes not needed to mount auto antennas Last week we discussed the various types of mobile CB antennas that are available.

Now let's talk about how to attach them to the vehicle. Assuming you've applied for and received your Class license and bought your equipment, the first step is the installation. Often the place where your mobile rig will install it for $25 or $30, or as part of a package deal. If not, don't worry. Installing a CB antenna on a car or truck is simple and normally can be done in less than an hour.

The only tools needed are a screwdriver and depending on what type of mount you select perhaps an electric drill. The mobile antenna I recommend for most automobiles is the trunk-mount type, a short, coil-loaded whip that can be fixed to an automobile trunk without drilling a hole for a bolt. This type is mounted in the center of the trunk. The antenna mount slips over the trunk lip and is tightened in place by a pair of adjusting screws. Since it is omnidirectional, it is important to locate the antenna as close as possible to the center of the trunk lid.

Actually, an antenna located in the center of the roof would be more desirable. It used to be that this type required a hole through the metal and removal of the roof lining. Now, CBers can use a convenient magnetic mount, which uses a strong magnet to hold the antenna down. If you can't mount an antenna on the trunk because of too much trunk slant a problem with many late-model automobiles or because you have a truck or recreational vehicle, there are other antenna mounts that work well without drilling a hole. The annual Parker Family reunion Don and Rita Busch, Dallas, Pa.

for was held July 12 in Marysville Park coming the farthest. with 76 members attending. Officers for 1981 are Carol Van-Gifts were presented to Mabel Buskirk, president; Blanche Thomson, Busch, oldest member and Jonathan vice president; VanBuskirk, youngest member and to urer, Nettie Nancy Gates is now at the HAIR DESIGNERS The Grove 987-7774 The Maternity ClosetSummer Clearance Continues SAVE 30 to 512 Quay St. Mon. Sat.

10 to 5:00 Fri. pm 982-9492 RECEPTIONS PARTIES BUSINESS BANQUETS, ETC. COMPLETE LICENSED FACILITIES FOR 100 TO 2000 PEOPLE FOR INFORMATION PHONE 985-6166 MIC MORRAN PLACE MON. THRU FRIDAY DOWNTOWN 10 AM 5 PORT HURON teen-agers three years sooner. The juices are flowing and the circuits are overloaded.

The bodies are ready, but the emotional equipment often is too frail to handle a sexual relationship. Once they become sexually active, they don't quit. The parents of the girl who died did not fail their daughter. The final decision had to be hers. From what I gather, she was not promiscuous and probably planned to marry the young man.

How can you prevent your daughters from taking the same route? You can't. You can only try to establish an honest relationship and instruct them on how to prevent VD and pregnancy. You also can explain the difference between sex and love and emphasize the beauty of saving oneself for mar- Parents should not write their children off if they choose to go in another direction. Nor should they feel guilty if their children ignore good counsel and get into trouble. Every study I have seen in the past six years indicates that more young people are becoming sexually active at an earlier age, and it is unlikely that the trend will be reversed.

There were more than a million teen-age pregnancies last year and 1980 may be worse. In my opinion, all this sleeping around is sad. It has little to do with love and caring. I liked it better the other way. But we cannot turn the clock back.

Parents do not have the last word. Each individual, in the final analysis, is responsible for himself or herself. Dear Ann Landers: I have been going with Bill, off and on, for four years. Periodically he says he wants to date someone else, and I say, "Fine," but he always comes back to me and announces that no one suits him as well as I. Now he has decided we should get married, but his proposal was the oddest one I've ever heard of.

What do you Bill wants me to sign an agreement stating that if our marriage doesn't work and we decide to be divorced will be no settlement and no alimony." Nothing would be "ours." Everything would be either his or mine, depending on who paid for it. Apart from the nuisance of trying to keep track of who owns what, it sounds like an ice-cold arrangement. In my book marriage means for life. Do you get the impression that Bill is approaching marriage as something of a try-out? Uncertain In Brandon, Manitoba. Dear Un: For many people who marry today, it does not mean a promise "to love and to cherish, from this day forward, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, 'til death do us part." It means "until I get tired of you," or "until something more appealing comes along." You have every right to be leery of Bill.

A man who is so anxious about protecting his worldly goods "in case things don't work out" has a dangerously negative attitude and shows very little faith in your integrity. If I were you, I'd give him the deep six. CB News By Mike Wendland There are bumper mounts that consist of a couple of stainless steel bands that can be tightened to hold the antenna base in place. And there are gutter mounts that clamp onto the gutters or side mirrors. The directions that come with the antenna explain how to hook up the transmission line, known as the coaxial cable or simply the coax.

Once the antenna is mounted, the next step is to get the coax into the vehicle. With gutter mounts, most operators feed the transmission line through the front window. A mobile coax is narrow enough to permit a window to be rolled up sufficiently to avoid weather problems. For rear or trunk-mounted antennas, the coax usually is fed inside the trunk and around the rear seat into the vehicle. To keep passengers from tripping over the coax, unscrew the metal floor strip that is fastened to the bottom of one of the door frames, lift up the carpeting or vinyl floor covering and run the coax underneath to the front of the car where the radio itself will be attached.

Dear Mike: On a visit to Atlanta, I picked up my CB and asked the easiest route into town. This, mind you, was during rush hour, and Atlanta's rush hours are among the worst anywhere. CB saved me a good half-hour. The courtesy I was extended was the most gratifying thing I've experienced in a long time. Thanks, CBers.

Essexville, Mich. Happy to Announce Bill is Back At the Merle Norman Beaute' Corner. Stop in today for a free consultation on summer braids. Let him show you how fantastic they are. MERLE NORMAN BEAUTE CORNER 415 QUAY 984-4134 AMERICAN SHOPPERS RECEIVE 2' OVER PAR AT Lambton, Mall SARNIA, ONTARIO Gain Gas Bar (Service Station) 43 Stores Under One Roof Ample Free Parking Open 10 A.M.

to 10 P.M. Monday thru Saturday. We Invite American Shoppers Ask for details at the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce in the Mall. Shop Smart. Get more for your American Dollars.

Receive 2c over the daily bank exchange rate. We welcome you to Lambton Mall. Hwy 402 Hue Water Bridge Gain Lambton Gas Bari Mall LONDON RD. DIFFERENT EVERYDAY SOMETHING A OUTLET STREET to 1333 24TH OFF THRU JULY 29, 1980 DESCRIPTION FREEZER CONTAINERS (1 AND QT.) 40 PAGE PHOTO ALBUM BRAZIER GRILL VEGETABLE STORAGE BIN (ASST COLORS) 20 PC. PICNIC SET (SERVICE FOR 4) PLASTIC WOVEN PAPER PLATE HOLDERS 9" PAPER PLATES (100 CT) PARTY TIME PLASTIC TABLE CLOTH PERT TABLE NAPKINS (140 CT) SOLO HOT COLD CUPS (50 CT) BOYS SHIRTS (WHITE) JR.

MISS PANTY HOSE MENS BEACH SANDALS LADIES CHILDRENS BEACH SANDALS SPLIT HEAD RING INFLATABLE) BEACH BALL (16" INFLATABLE) SPLIT RING (20" INFLATABLE) ONE MAN VINYL BOAT (INFLATABLE) VINYL WADING POOL (52x14) WICKER HAND FAN VINYL WADING POOL (32x10) DRIED FLOWERS PANTRY PRIDE HERBAL ESSENCE SHAMPOO PANTRY PRIDE STRAWBERRY CREME RINSE GARDEN HAND SHOVEL WOODEN SHIPSWHEEL (BAROMETER) COLGATE TOOTHPASTE (7 OZ.) SPIRAL CANDLES TWIN TURNTABLE PLASTIC WALL ORGANIZER FACIAL TISSUE HOLDER VINYL FLOOR RUNNER SUGG. OUR CLEARANCE QUANTITY RETAIL RETAIL PRICE 375 1.79 1.00 300 12.99 7.00 4.88 20 15.99 13.96 7.88 150 1.79 1.50 216 1.38 .99 150 2.99 2.00 1.49 300 1.29 1.09 .88 148 1.29 1.00 .88 425 .89 .74 .59 200 .79 .54 300 1.00 .73 1000 2.50 .59 65 4.99 2.99 1.50 60 3.99 2.79 1.30 300 1.39 .96 250 .79 .39 .26 300 1.49 .88 .59 30 15.99 11.88 9.88 24 7.49 5.88 3.88 1000 .99 .50 12 3.69 2.88 1.99 600 4.88 3.00 2.00 200 1.19 .84 200 1.19 .84 230 .89 .62 .31 36 14.95 12.00 8.88 100 1.49 1.28 .88 1000 1.49 1.00 .88 80 2.99 2.00 1.49 120 1.99 1.50 95 1.59 .88 .68 300 6.99 4.00 2.99 BASKETBALL (OFFICIAL SIZE WEIGHT) 24 9.99 4.88 2.44 DIXIE COLD CUPS (PKG 10) 100 .79 BIKE CARRIER (AUTOMOBILE) 10 29.95 12.88 8.59 ALL POP $1.69 8 PACK PEPS -COLA PEPSI PLUS DEPOSIT DEALERS-DISTRIBUTORS-PUBLIC WELCOME HOURS SATISFACTION GUARANTEED OR YOUR MONEY BACK MONDAY THRU SATURDAY 10 AM to 9 PM 1333 24TH STREET SUNDAY 11 AM TO 5 PM 987-7708.